Being a Loner and being married with a family

So yeah, if you don't know me, then you wouldn't know this about me but I am a loner. I don't like people, I don't like leaving the house, I don't like social events or social interactions whatsoever. I think the kids call it being a "homebody." I'm not entirely sure if that's right or not so don't quote me. But basically, if you haven't already gathered it from what I said, I do not leave my house unless its absolutely necessary. I have a very small group of friends and even they go days, weeks, sometimes even months without hearing from me. They know its nothing personal against them, its just the way I am. I find that the less people you have to talk to and interact with, the less problems you'll have and your life will be that much easier. So if I am the way I am, how did I manage to fall in love, get married, and start a family with someone? It wasn't actually as hard as you might think. See when I found my wife, it was by pure coincidence, as these things usually happen, and we only started talking cause I got her number from a mutual friend, creepy I know. And its not like we hadn't talked before in person, I just was to shy to actually ask her for her number because, well, I'm that shy awkward guy. And it just escalated from there. I'm not going to go into the details right now, ill save that for another time. But being with her, she understands who I am and that sometimes I need to just be left alone. Sure she doesn't like it very much, but she knows that that's just the way I am and that its nothing that she did. I must say, having a son makes it extremely hard for me to get my alone time, that's why I stay up until 3 am most nights just sitting on the computer, whether it be watching Netflix, gaming, streaming, or just surfing the good ol internets, I'm alone and at peace. That's why I adore the winter time so much because I don't have to worry about getting up at 4 am to go to work and deal with angry customers screaming at me cause their lawns not green after getting one treatment done, which isn't going to happen with only one treatment but again, that's a story for another time. Being alone with Levi all day isn't bad either. Mostly because he's my spawn and I love him, and partly because he's an easy child who doesn't cry much and actually makes me laugh often. Being with my wife isn't bad either, again because I love her dearly and chose that woman to be my partner for the rest of my life, and I did make a good choice because like I stated before, she understands who I am and lets me be the way I need to be in order to stay sane and happy. So being a loner in a relationship and having a family isn't as hard as you think it would be. You just have to find the right partner in life and make sure she or he understands you. A lot of people wont understand this, and that's okay. There's different types of loners out there and this is just the way I am. some people wont talk to anyone at all and wont even bother having a relationship. Although I personally think that that isn't the healthiest thing for a person mentally, I wont push my beliefs on someone because that's not the right thing to do. This post has been all over the place and that because the words are just kind of flowing from my brain cells into my finger tips and going right into my fancy thinking machine to post this here for everyone and anyone to read and laugh at. Or question my sanity. Who knows what any one is thinking as they read any thing I write? I sure as hell don't, and I honestly could care less or else I wouldn't be doing this. Hasta la vista fuckers.